People call me fat or make passing remarks implying that i am overweight or obese from time to time. Did those remarks bother me? Of course. Did they make me feel sad & angry? Definitely. But do i consider them as bullies? No. Why? Because to me, it is obvious i am fat, overweight and obese. it was my choice to be this way. of course it is also my choice to lose weight and be skinny but right now, those cards are not on the table. yes, i want to be healthy but right now, i am happy as i am. bullies are people who constantly put me down but weight issues have never been something that crumbled me into pieces.
However, i do believe that saying, “Hey, you are fat” or “You should eat lesser, you know, cause you are overweight” is COMPLETELY UNNECESSARY. Why criticize others? Why is there a need to crush someone’s happiness for your own greed? Stop harassing people about how they look. If you want to be friends with them, good. if not, they don’t need you either so stay away.
Lets start to be kind with one another, regardless of body size, race, religion, colour and culture.
@1 year ago
#fat #overweight #obese #be nice #bullying #anti bully #body image
@1 year ago with 3 notes
#day 10 #job interview #ootd #WIWT #curvy #Plus Size #chubby #Dorothy Perkins
Had 2 job interviews! I didn’t have any decent formal tops so I settled for this Maroon Top from Dorothy Perkins. May look casual but i definitely think it was appropriate for interviews. Maybe black or cream would’ve been a wiser choice, but oh wells.
Top: Dorothy Perkins (UK18) & it was on sale!
Bottom: Navy Blue pants, I need to get this tailored so that i wont need to roll them (UK18)
Belt: Dorothy Perkins (Extra Large)
Bag: Mustard Fossil Bag, bought it from Johor Bahru Premium Outlet for USD130
I have a lot of shoes but none of them were colour appropriate for any interviews. So i bought this one black pumps & it looked ugly (that’s why there isnt any photo of it) sigh. need a decent pair of pumps.
Anyway, I hope I get called for more interviews :)
@1 year ago with 1 note
#day 8 #ootd #WIWT #dorothy perkins #curvy #chubby #Plus Size
Laneway! My friend got 2 free tickets to Laneway Singapore from Mtv as her birthday present and I accompanied her to the event! Since it’s a music festival, I decided to dress comfortable in a flowery dress that’s very breathable & sandals :) Of course the girls there looked like they were the exact replica of the “tumblr girls” but I rocked my outfit :)
Dress: Dorothy Perkins (UK18)